Excuses.

To be perfectly honest I hate people who make excues for themself.

Today during The BIGGEST LOSER, this pair made excuses to notfinish the challange when they lost. But the thing is even the two other pairs did not win but they still finished their challange. Finish what you started. No matter ho hard, difficult or time consuming it is.

Also, I was helping out some friends with their school play today. Many made excuses that they were nervous and couldnt do as instructed. I pulled them apart and worked one on one. The shy one that had a chunk of lines could do it more easily than he previously did and the other could beat box ( which is so cool) and he did not want to do it cause it was ‘embarrasing’. He ended up doing as suggested after he beat boxed for 36 seconds straight. He kept saying he could not. But he did! sigh….

excuses. a trick of the mind to tell you that you cant.

Success as a team

Today, I have made myself very happy and proud. I have relised the key to my potential sucess. The key to success in a team is team bonding. I got a lot of work done over the past 2 days then in the last 2 weeks cause I played bonding games and now everyone loves the game Blow Wind Blow. It is basically a game where a team will learn more about others. And every practise we put some time away to play the game. This bonds everyone and energises everyone too. People will be more productive and happier and when I have a happy cast, I am a happy director.

Yeah. Team bonding will equate team productivity.

Girl talk wanted

I have a few things to say. First just want to get something off my chest.

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO WEIRD???

THEY MAKE IT SO OBVIOUS THAT I LIKE SOMEONE

AND THEN THEY CALL ME TO TELL ME THE GUY ISN”T INTERESTED!

Yeah, I don’t get it. I don’t know. I like someone else( very few people know who).

The guy is an old crush people. Don’t like him any more.

Man, I need to talk to a girl!

Why I’m being Nasty

I am currently directing a play for my church. And it is now lent and the play will be held on Good Friday. Soif you guessed that it is a play about theb passion of Christ, DING DING DING, you are absolutely correct.

Now the thing is people are asking me why am I so hard on myself? Why am I so critical? I’ll tell you why. I am under the age of 20! I am directing a play that the youth are helping to do. Anything goes wrong during the play or if I get any complaints it is MY HEAD ON THE CHOPPING BLOCK. Not my actors, not my asistant directors. MINE.

Anyone wanna see me head less?

I need to show the priest of this church that I can be responsible, that the youth can be responsible.

If I don’t show that now, who will?

Control

Do you really believe in control?

What is control in the first place?

Dictionary.com:

<a href=”http://dictionary.reference.com/audio.html/lunaWAV/C08/C0804900″ target=”_blank”><img src=”http://cache.lexico.com/g/d/speaker.gif” border=”0″ /></a> /kənˈtroʊl/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [kuhn-trohl] Show IPA verb, -trolled, -trol⋅ling, noun

–verb (used with object)

1.	to exercise restraint or direction over; dominate; command.

2.	to hold in check; curb: to control a horse; to control one’s emotions.

3.	to test or verify (a scientific experiment) by a parallel experiment or other standard of comparison.

4.	to eliminate or prevent the flourishing or spread of: to control a forest fire.

5.	Obsolete. to check or regulate (transactions), originally by means of a duplicate register.

–noun

6.	the act or power of controlling; regulation; domination or command: Who’s in control here?

7.	the situation of being under the regulation, domination, or command of another: The car is out of control.

8.	check or restraint: Her anger is under control.

9.	a legal or official means of regulation or restraint: to institute wage and price controls.

10.	a standard of comparison in scientific experimentation.

11.	a person who acts as a check; controller.

12.	a device for regulating and guiding a machine, as a motor or airplane.

13.	controls, a coordinated arrangement of such devices.

14.	prevention of the flourishing or spread of something undesirable: rodent control.

15.	Baseball. the ability of a pitcher to throw the ball into the strike zone consistently: The rookie pitcher has great power but no control.

16.	Philately. any device printed on a postage or revenue stamp to authenticate it as a government issue or to identify it for bookkeeping purposes.

17.	a spiritual agency believed to assist a medium at a séance.

18.	the supervisor to whom an espionage agent reports when in the field.

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Sometimes I wonder why I use dictionary.com

Well, in any situation, you have a certain about of control. However, the only thing you can control is yourself. Your feelings, your thoughts and your actions. You can’t control the actions of others.

If you could….well we can only imagine.

Well, it is all that we can only do. Once we let out thoughts come under our control, we can further understand ourselves and control our efforts to making a situation work out. We can only wait for a reaction for the other party.

Don’t control the world, control yourself.

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International Women’s day

Last Sunday, 8 of March, was International Women’s Day and since it was a special day, I wanted to do a special post on a special lady. Sadly, I wasn’t very much inspired. However, on International Women’s Day, instead of embracing the joys of being a woman, my cousin, a friend and myself exposed our flaws, faults and regrets that we, as women, have made.

Many of what that conversation is secret and will remain secret. However, the fact that we didn’t celebrate our womanhood to me came as a shock. We did one thing no woman has the pleasure of doing.

Accepting her flaws. Her faults. The things in her life she wishes she could change. Ladies, come on. We all have to admit it someday. Why not sooner? We aren’t perfect. We are fully human.

On international woman’s day, while many spent their day enjoying being a woman, I embraced that I am not perfect. That I have flaws. The sooner I told myself that, the better I felt. So ladies, what if you have a bad hair day? Or if everyone you are working with thinks you have this major crush on your colleague? You are merely a human being.

In the past women weren’t given high expectations. Now, we try to reach expectations which are beyond us. You are human. Not an alien. Not a superhuman. A NORMAL human being, stop living up to the expectations of others and always do the right thing.

Now, if you can excuse me. I need to go practise what I preach.

Know yourself better.

I love personality test. I love sharing them. Enjoy.

http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx

My Results:

Your view on yourself:

Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They’ll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend – you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.

The right job for you:

You’re a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you’ll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don’t succeed. Don’t give up when you haven’t yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don’t ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve

Yeah, it is accurate. Me is just up there right now, exposed to the world.

I’m dramatic too by the way! lol

What it takes to be a leader!

Every time my principal talks to my school, she always mention the words ‘leader’ and ‘inspire’ and she will always throw in the occassional ‘please girls!’ I guess, my the reactions of my school mates, that most find her morning lectures are scholdings. I would beg to differ. Ms Martens ( a principal like this deserves credit doesn’t she?) has granted us our greatest wish we wanted for years. To be treated like an adult, to be treated with some maturity. And by the looks of it, many still think we did something wrong.

I love it when my Principal or Vice-Principal talks to us. I don’t take them as boring lectures about our behaviour or our attitude. Most of the time I don’t see it as we did something wrong. In school, you are suppose to make mistakes and learn from them. No point NOT learning.

Back to my point. My principal always tells us to be leaders. Easy right?WRONG. According to her, to be a leader, you need to inspire, you need to be true, you need to be responsible. You need to have this long list of qualities to be a leader. Let me brea it down which I feel is the most important one.

You need to inspire. You need to motivate the people you are working with to do what you want them to do. You need to inspire for people to do something. Anything. This applies to everything and not just work and school. When you blog about inspiring things and situations and you make someone want to do something, you are a leader.

So go on everyone. Be leaders of the world.

Inspire.

Rihanna got beat up…by Chris Brown

Hey! POP QUIZ!

Who:

• dated a guy younger than her
• is really beautiful
• started out with ‘unfaithful’
• is a good girl gone bad.
• got a really crazy haircut which might I add is fabulous!
• one of my favorite artist.
• got beat up by her ‘darling younger boyfriend’.

If you guessed Rihanna good for you.

Chris Brown beat her up! WHAT IN THE WORLD! THEY LOOKED GOOD TOGETHER! Why?

NO SHE DOESN’T WANT TO PRESS CHARGES!.

Dear Rihanna,

This coming from a dear fan and someone who actually cares about you, please please please press charges. What if he does it again? Lock him up! Throw away the key girl. You might be hurt inside and out but letting him go is not the answer. You might refuse to believe that he is capable of doing something like that but…

Lets just say I have a friend that went through a very simillar situation. Keeping quiet about it and not letting him be placed behind bars is never the answer. Put yourself first! What? You think orange is a bad colour on him? WHO CARES! Come on girl! I know you are alot smarter than that!

Sigh.

Think about it.

A Real Woman

A REAL WOMAN loves with all her heart.

A REAL WOMAN would never cheat

A REAL WOMAN can’t tell what is love and what is not.

A REAL WOMAN is easily hurt

A REAL WOMAN will protect her children

A REAL WOMAN trusts her man.

A REAL WOMAN almost always wears her heart on her sleeve.

A REAL WOMAN  is a dreamer.

A REAL WOMAN will worry about her man every second of every day.

A REAL WOMAN is always worried.

A REAL WOMAN will work hard for something she believes in.

A REAL WOMAN knows that family will forever come first.

A REAL WOMAN understands that the world is changing.

A REAL WOMAN will call everyday even if you don’t reply.

A REAL WOMAN should be treated with respect.

A REAL WOMAN will respect her body.

A REAL WOMAN can’t tell when it is over and when it is not.

A REAL WOMAN wants you to remind her that she is the most beautiful female you have ever layed eyes on.

A REAL WOMAN will love you always.

A REAL WOMAN will always need compliments.

A REAL WOMAN knows she has A REAL MAN!